My mother passed away when I was very young, and I fear that if I name my daughter after her, I will unknowingly place the burden of nostalgia on her.
If we are to name our children after people we know and cherish, I would prefer they be those we know and love well enough to also acknowledge and accept their flaws.
In my clan, it is traditional not to name a child after a person who is alive (excluding the parent, of course), so as not to place a burden of expectation on them. It could also be misconstrued as a wish for that person to die.
( although the horsepeople do not fear death, it is a misconception that they welcome it. they will fight against it, fearfully and fiercely, until the end. )
[ the last part of his explanation probably shouldn't have made her laugh - at the very least, she can claim she simply choked on a small piece of biscuit as she reads his note over a short tea break. ]
I have never once considered that such a thing might also be presented as a possible death wish, but I suppose I can see where it comes from.
Thank you. I think Alerie is a beautiful name as well. Although I suppose my grandmother was more of my parent than my mother ever got to be - how do you feel about Olenna?
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I would like for you to name our son, if we're blessed with one. I imagine it means as much for your people as it would for us?
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( apologies to his private secretary, madame jacobine affrรฉ. it is a fine, strong name but not for his child. )
Yes. I imagine our people will be as overjoyed for a prince or princess as we will be.
Your opinion shall be considered in the naming of any child, of course.
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I see. In that case, I'm very relieved that I'm not at all attached to that name.
Is there anyone you'd want to name your child after? Nacogdoches, perhaps?
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Is there anyone you wish to name our child after?
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She and her cousin would be in the same room only on occasion.
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I have no preferences, aside from those names that have been marred by people who had them.
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If we are to name our children after people we know and cherish, I would prefer they be those we know and love well enough to also acknowledge and accept their flaws.
Do you think that's silly?
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In my clan, it is traditional not to name a child after a person who is alive (excluding the parent, of course), so as not to place a burden of expectation on them. It could also be misconstrued as a wish for that person to die.
( although the horsepeople do not fear death, it is a misconception that they welcome it. they will fight against it, fearfully and fiercely, until the end. )
Alerie is a beautiful name, however.
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I have never once considered that such a thing might also be presented as a possible death wish, but I suppose I can see where it comes from.
Thank you. I think Alerie is a beautiful name as well. Although I suppose my grandmother was more of my parent than my mother ever got to be - how do you feel about Olenna?
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If you wish to bestow it on a daughter, I would have no objections.
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You win this round, darling. x